In recent years I’ve begun scaling back my habit of making New Year’s Resolutions. I’ve found that I have a tendency to be overly ambitious in my goal setting which predictably leaves me feeling discouraged the following New Year’s Eve, if not sooner. I’m learning to be a little more reasonable with my ambitions. Last year, my goal was to simplify my life by avoiding the “dollar aisle” at mega marts. My theory was, “The less junk I buy, the less mess I have at home.” I fared pretty well with that goal, and that success made me happy!
In contemplating a resolution for the coming year I decided to consider something a little more “spiritual.” Recently I’ve been noticing a few old friendships in my life fading away; not because of any bad experiences, but simply a fork in the road leading us on different paths. Two of these relationships were women that I had truly admired for a long time and often tried to be like. But I came to realize the Lord was asking me to stop looking at their lives for guidance because that was not the path He was leading me down. It is not because the path they are on is bad in any way, but simply that is not the path God desires for me. This understanding led me to my New Year’s Resolution for 2011, “I will fully embrace the path God has for me.”
I don’t know about you but I am a pretty visual person, so I like to imagine the things God is telling me. So, in this case I started picturing myself walking down a dirt road holding hands with God. I could see that by trying to stay connected to people on a different path I was pulling against God, dragging my feet, looking behind me all the time and asking a lot of nagging questions. That is not how God wants us to go down this path. It reminded me of a hiking trip I took this past summer.
My brother and I had the opportunity to go hiking at Amicalola Falls in northern Georgia this summer. We had just finished leading worship at a Youth Camp and decided to hike up to the waterfall before making the drive back home. We hiked from the bottom of the falls to the top. Much of the hike was up a staircase but it was a pretty steep incline over a short distance. We were exhausted when we got to the top. We took some time to rest and eat before heading back down. My brother suggested we take a different trail down the mountain, one that did not have any stairs but went through the surrounding woods. I was hesitant because I’m not very surefooted going downhill. A few years back, I fell and hurt my ankle while on a downhill climb and I’ve been a fraidy cat ever since. But, rather than admit my fears and ask that we take the stairs I agreed to the trail hike, grudgingly. The entire hike down I was nervous, I complained, I walked ridiculously slow and I am confident I sucked all the fun out of the hike for my brother. I was not fully embracing this path. I was walking it, but not embracing it.
I believe that God is calling all of us to not just walk the path with Him but to fully embrace it with joy and peace and confidence. We might be afraid because of the people we are leaving behind, because of bad experiences from the past or fears about the future, but we can admit all that to God and ask Him to help us enjoy the things that are coming along the way. I really love the Message translation of Romans 12:1-2
“So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him.”
Our journey with God will be so much more pleasant, for both of us, if we fully embrace what He is doing. Truly, that is the best thing we can do for Him and, I believe, a worthy New Year’s Resolution.